So, you want to get naked this weekend. Well, I’m here to help. I have been a lingerie consultant for almost a decade now, so let’s talk lingerie. This blog is dedicated to finding you the right lingerie for this upcoming valentine’s day (although these rules are not exclusive and can be applied to everyday bra and undies). Alright, let’s jump in shall we.
Lingerie
The fit of an item is the most important deciding factor when it comes to lingerie. Lingerie is meant to make you feel sexy and bring out your confidence- it’s as much for you as it is for him. It’s meant to make you feel good about yourself. If your lingerie isn’t the right fit, you’ll feel uncomfortable, and this will make it difficult to concentrate on anything else.
The Hourglass Shape: where the torso and hips are approximately the same width, with a defined waist.
Show Off: maximize the appearance of a curvy body by emphasizing your waist.
Lingerie Suggestion: you can emphasize your waste by wearing a corset, bustier, or waist cincher. You can also go for a fitted baby-doll with a built in bra to accentuate your curves. For a curvier body type, you’ll want to go for thongs that have a thicker waist band, brazillian undies, and boy cut undies. These cut across a fuller bottom to make it appear smaller. Avoid undies that have tight elastic waistbands, they will cut into the largest part of you.
The Triangle Shape: where the torso and upper body are wider than your hips, with little waist definition.
Show Off: emphasize your legs to draw attention away from how broad you are on top.
Lingerie Suggestion: minimize the appearance of broad shoulders by choosing an item that does up in a halter. Also, wider straps a more flattering than thinner ones. Short baby-dolls and nighty & cami sets are your best bet.With a smaller lower body you can also play around with the types of undies you go for- if you have a flat bum then thongs with a thin waist band and brazillian undies are best suited for you.
The Boyish Shape: where the torso and upper body are the same width as your hips, with little waist definition.
Show Off: emphasize how petite you are and create the curves that aren’t there.
Lingerie Suggestion: if you’re small chested and your desire is to create curves, a gel push-up bra is a great investment- it’s a visible difference. If you are willing to spend a little money, inserts called “cutlets” are also available, and will bring you up an entire cup size. Also, look for bras and lingerie that have deep plunging necklines. You are looking for the maximum cleavage here. You would do well in a bra and garter set, or a slim fitting baby-doll with a bra built in. If you have a little bum then thongs with a thin waist band and brazillian undies are best suited for you.
The Apple Shape: where your torso and upper body are wider than your hips, with little or no waist definition. You might have weight surrounding your waist.
Show Off: emphasize great cleavage and slim legs.
Lingerie Suggestion: if you are looking to hide a bit of a tummy, a baby-doll with a centre panel, or a baby-doll that is looser and more flowing is your best bet. You want to avoid anything with a built in bra if you are bigger than a D cup. If you feel uncomfortable in a less structured piece, then invest in a supportive bra like a balconette style bra- the right fitting bra will lift you to where you belong and you will instantly appear smaller. When you are looking for undies, choose some that do not have tight elastic waistbands, or that cut in- brazillian undies and boy cut undies offer fuller coverage while still being sexy.
The Pear Shape: where torso and upper body are smaller than your hips, with a defined waist.
Show Off: emphasize your waist and cleavage in order to balance a larger bottom half.
Lingerie Suggestion: if your looking for great cleavage, a gel push-up bra will maximize cleavage and create a fuller top to balance out a fuller bottom. Look for bras and lingerie that have deep plunging necklines. If you are looking to bring attention away from your hips, a baby-doll that is looser and that skims the hip is your best bet. If you are hippy and have a larger bum then you’ll want to go for thongs that have a thicker waist band, brazillian undies, and boy cut undies. These cut across a fuller bottom to make it appear smaller. Avoid undies that have tight elastic waistbands, they will cut into the largest part of you.
The most important thing to emphasize is fit, do not let your vanity come into play here ladies- if something doesn’t fit or suit your body type then go up a size or try something else. Don’t try to fit into a trend that doesn’t fit you.
5 Tricks that make a difference:
1. Stockings: when buying stockings, be sure you are buying the right ones. Stay-ups are thigh-high stockings you wear without a garter belt. They are better for women with slimmer thighs as they have a plastic band around the inside to keep them up, and can cut into fuller thighs. There are thigh highs that do not have this plastic band and are designed to be warn with a garter set. These are not stay-ups and will therefore not stay up by themselves. Also, when buying full stockings ensure that they fit and will not cut into your hips- if you are hippy and have a problem with this, buy fishnet stockings, cut the band off and wear them under your brazillian undies, it looks very burlesque.
2. Eyelashes: full, long eyelashes are just about the sexiest thing out there. Getting fake eyelashes or investing in a quality mascara can make all the difference. It’s an easy way to finish a look and make you feel special.
3. Lip Tint: lip tint allows for long lasting colour that can’t be kissed off. Also, for a flushed appearance, apply a small amount of the tint to the apples of your cheeks and rub in circles. Choose the colour based on your skin tone.
4. Details: make a lingerie outfit your own. If you aren’t thrilled with the undies that come with a set- change it up with something that suits you better. Mix and match items, play with bows and other accessories. Putting your own personal stamp on the outfit will make you feel more comfortable and confident in it.
5. Perfume: wear it. Depending on your mood, you can pick something light and airy, or something deep and delicious. Apply small amounts to the insides of your wrists, behind your earlobes, and your collarbone- these are erogenous zones and they will attract more attention if you add fragrance to them.
I hope this has gotten you excited about lingerie. From me to you, have a fabulous v-day.
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